Looking into some failed relationships will make you think that some bonds were doomed to end. But when you’re in the middle of a relationship shit-storm and heading for the rocks of singledom, it is not always that black and white.
Sometimes it becomes tough for you to figure out if your relationship is going to end or is it going to survive this low. Like a terrain, you never know where it is going to give you a fall or where will it be a high path. When things start to change, you may notice some weird behavior of your partner. Like not communicating in a proper way, postponing plans with you, making unnecessary excuses and many other reasons.
Thus, to sum it up, we’ve gathered here a list of things for you to notice and identify these 10 signs that your love is somewhere giving up. It’s time to break up rather than experiencing a poisonous relationship.
#1. Too Much Coziness.
This might look strange to you but relationships with more than necessary tight bonds where the partners merely dissolve into each other are generally supposed to break easily. Sooner or later, one of the partners gets irritated by the other, which inevitably causes pain and break up.
#2. Lack Of Communication.
Sometimes you hear that people in love don’t need any words. It’s a big mistake because a key to a harmonious relationship is listening to each other and sharing whatever you have in your heart and mind. When we don’t communicate enough, we risk our relationship.
#3. Expecting Way Too Much.
Sometimes expecting too much in a relationship can kill the relationship. Expecting too much and forcing your desires on the other half may provoke serious conflicts. It is necessary to comprehend and respect the fact that we all are different people.
#4. No Or Fading Physical Intimacy.
It is necessary to understand that a relationship (both sexual and social) is built step by step, over and over again on each step of a couple’s evolution. It’s that joy of touching and intimating with each other that makes you a couple and not roommates. Having an excuse every night may result in the loss of interest in your relationship and break-up.
#5. No Common Plans.
When freshly in love, young couples sometimes refuse to make common plans or any discussion about future. After their passion is gone, they have no idea what’s coming next and become frightened. In order to build a strong relationship, it is necessary to discuss future plans and not to avoid even the trickiest questions: children, finance, personal space, readiness for monogamy, etc.
#6. Still Into Your Past.
It may seem like a good healthy relationship when one of the partners constantly tries to heal, protect, or solve their partner’s problems. But, constantly stuck in the past and not trying to overcome those things that are long past time may break the relationship.
#7. Unsolved Issues And Baggage That Later Become Grudges.
Disappointment and anger grow out of unsolved conflicts. It is necessary to recognize the amount of swallowed emotions in order for things not to go towards the breakup. In a relationship, it is vital to discuss your problems.
#8. No Explanations And Statements.
When things are really complicated and not moving forward with the usual speed as it should. If you too can’t explain sufficiently why your relationship is not moving a good direction, it may lead to loss of interest.
#9. Downfall Of Efforts.
When in a relationship, the bond is basically comprised of two people who work for and with each other. Thus having laziness and not giving enough efforts in the relationship may end it at any time.
When one partner finds out that they are being cheated on, it leads to the end of the relationship in the majority of cases. If you think you don’t have a relationship that can be taken to the next level kindly clear out the matter with your partner. It is important not to force a relationship and not cheat the other person.