Relationships can’t be rosy all the time, eventually, you and your beloved one are bound to disagree on something. Sometimes, girls take their boyfriends for granted. Knowingly or unknowingly, they say certain things that are very hurtful. Communication is an important part of dating, but sometimes, saying too much can do more harm than good. Being upfront and forthcoming about your thoughts and feelings is ideal, but there are certain things a girl should never say if she wants to keep her relationship intact.
Here are 8 things you should never say to your boyfriend. Read the article till the end and don’t forget to share your views with us.
1. I Think I Might Be Pregnant.
If you want to see the look of horror on your boyfriend’s face, all you have to do is tell him that you might be pregnant. These words have the ability to turn a guy’s life upside down. He starts thinking about how he is going to support a child, how he’s going to tell his parents the news, and how his life is going to drastically change forever.
In this situation, it’s best for a girl to hold off on saying she might be pregnant until she takes a pregnancy test to find out for sure.
2. We Need To Talk.
Hearing from his girlfriend the words that ” We need to talk” can ruin anyone’s entire day. They start wondering what they did wrong, and they even contemplate the thought of their girlfriend breaking up with them.
Serious conversations really freak guys out and thinking just about having to sit down and discuss something important can be really nerve-racking.
3. Why Don’t You Man Up?
There are certain words and phrases that should totally off limits when a girl is arguing with her boyfriend.
Telling a guy to “Man Up” is equivalent to telling him he’s weak or inadequate. No one in this world wants to feel emasculated by the girl he loves.
4. I Hate Your Parents.
There comes a point in a relationship when you have to meet your significant other’s, parents. Sometimes, you hit the jackpot and you get all along with his family. If a girl hates her boyfriend’s parents, it’s better to keep those thoughts to herself and don’t tell her boyfriend about this ever.
If he has a good relationship with his mom and dad, knowing that his girlfriend doesn’t get along with them can really make him reconsider being in a relationship.
5. Your Bestfriend Is Too Hot.
A boyfriend knows that his girlfriend is going to find any other men attractive, but he doesn’t want to know that his girlfriend has the hots for his best friend.
This is top-secret that every girl should have to take to the grave with herself. Letting your boyfriend know that you find his best friend attractive can make him feel insecure, and he may start to think that you’re only with him so you can get closer to his friend.
6. Do You Want To Have Kids?
Asking your boyfriend that if he wants to have kids is the quickest way to get him freak out. Maybe he wants to have kids in future, but talking about babies is something that makes most guys feel a bit uneasy.
Parenthood is a big responsibility, and if a boy is not ready to become a father, discussing the possibility of having kids is one conversation he would love to avoid.
7. You’re not really the romantic type.
Maybe you’re not really into the frills that accompany traditional dating. You don’t need a weekly “date night” and you’re not into celebrating your birthday and you really don’t want a gift on Valentine’s Day because it’s the stupidest of all Hallmark holidays. The problem is that the things you don’t want now have a way of transforming into things you might kind of like down the line. So don’t pigeon-hole yourself into being above a dash of romance.
You’re better off reserving the right to demand a nice night out once in awhile and preventing your man from the dangers of feeling comfortably lazy.
8. You flirt with your superiors at work.
We have a lot of double standards when it comes to what’s acceptable for men and women from a sexual standpoint. We celebrate men who go to extreme lengths and/or behave indecently as long as they do so in the name of providing for their families. Meanwhile, we demonize women who are willing to use their sexuality to get ahead in the workplace.
If you’re someone who believes it’s her right to nurture a professional flirtation for the sake of advancing her career objectives, keep it to yourself. Neither you nor your boyfriend will benefit from an honest discussion on this topic.