They say men are naturally polygamous and women say it’s bullsh*t. When infidelity comes in between the relationship you could not help but ask yourself “why did my husband fall for another woman?”, “what went wrong?” or “what did I do wrong?” Those painful questions that you also didn’t know the answer.
Well, the truth is, there is no definite reason why men tend to cheat, but below are some of the reasons why they opt to be unfaithful and check out other women instead of staying faithful and loyal to you.
He is looking for a friend
As what they say “the kilig will fade but friendship will not”, if you do not have a strong friendship foundation with your husband, there is a tendency that he might look for a woman who could be his friend, someone who listens, and understand all his frustrations instead of just ignoring and nagging at him when times get tough.
Men adore playing
He might be looking for someone who could be carefree and spontaneous. Marriage can put a lot of responsibility but he will still look for a woman who could be playful at times to break the tension, stress, and boredom.
He wants an independent woman
Despite having a commitment, men want a woman whose world does not only revolve around them as soon as they tied the knot. As ironic as it sounds but men has the tendency to chase something he can’t ever have.
He wants a happy woman
Yes, they want to make women happy but when the marriage gets in a hopeless situation he seeks to make another woman happy He’s seeking to make someone else happy because he doesn’t think he can do the same for you.
He is looking for something you don’t have
Sometimes there will come a time that men would realize that the woman that they marry isn’t really the one they are looking for. Yes, it’s awful but it happens in reality which led men to cheat and find the woman that they really want to be with and unfortunately, it is someone different from you.
He hates tears
A selfish reason is that men cheat because they hate feeling guilty and responsible for your pain and suffering so instead of dealing with it every day, they turn and run away from such drama.
Although these reasons are hard to read and to believe we have to accept the fact that men and women are totally different and remember that genuine behavior the key to a long-lasting relationship.